Finding the right piece of fine jewellery can be a game of roulette. Jewellery is so personal and specific, it’s easy to get it wildly wrong. If you’re not ready to purchase diamonds, this exclusive shoulder bag by Gucci is your best bet. The glittering hardware is a beautiful update on the cult-favourite designs.

Have you noticed we like to do the work for you? If you’ve got a gal who’s sustainability focused, check out our NET SUSTAIN edit, a curation of consciously crafted products that will last a lifetime. This Gabriela Hearst two-tone clutch is a versatile evening bag that will become a permanent fixture in her closet. In fact, Sean, if you’re reading this: hint-hint, nudge-nudge.

If you really think that anything apparel adjacent will go down like a lead balloon, then a timeless objet for the home is an eternal classic. Go for a vase, a candle or a bowl – artwork, like jewellery, will be hit or miss. Hurry up and get your hands on something from Louise Roe and you’ll thank me later.

Important disclaimer: only buy a woman clothing if you’re certain of her measurements. Nothing will cause insult or injury (to you) like an item of clothing that is too small, or heaven forbid, too big. A LBD (long black dress) is a staple in most wardrobes, and you can’t go wrong with such a chic, timeless classic. I will personally vouch for this off-the-shoulder embellished gown from Jacquemus.

A gift set that contains a multitude of products should do it. The NET‑A‑PORTER Ultimate Gift Set is a luxurious advent calendar packed with 15 full-sized and mini products including jewellery, beauty and homeware. Specially curated by our buyers, the set is packaged in a lantern-shaped box that doubles as an enchanting lamp to brighten dark winter.

You may have noticed that all these gifts are black – this is deliberate. Classic and classy, you can’t go wrong with black. However, if you’re still entirely uninspired (*hopeless), you can just ask her to leave her phone open on her NET‑A‑PORTER Wish List. Good luck.